Thursday, January 21, 2016

Words To Wisdom: My Journey to Literacy



“Children are made readers on the laps of their parents.” (Emilie Buchwald). That was most certainly true of me. I loved it when people would read to me. I would sit in my mother’s lap as a small child for hours on end, begging her to read just one more story. Just one more page, one more paragraph. My entire world was made of stories. When my friends would play dolls and dress-up, I would imagine myself to be Simba and Bambi and Boo, characters that I learned not because of the movies they appeared in, but because of the books that accompanied them. They filled my childhood with wonder and excitement.
It wasn’t until I was five or six years old that I truly began to understand that stories weren’t just something you tell or listen to; stories come to life through words. Suddenly, words became magical to me. The letters I learned in school—the sounds they made, the way you can put them together—suddenly took on an entire new meaning to me. All I ever wanted in the whole world was right in front of me. All I had to do was reach for it!
And that’s where the trouble commenced. At six years old, I knew exactly what I wanted. I understood well enough that I wanted to read. I spent countless hours shedding devastated tears. I knew it could work, but I didn’t have the knowledge to make it work. It didn’t help that I had so little patience. I knew exactly what I wanted, and I was keenly aware that I simply wasn’t able to have it.

I was bored to tears with the things I was able to read, and not yet able to read the things that interested me. The books I hopelessly stumbled through had no meaning. I didn’t want to read about a cat who had yarn. I couldn’t have cared less that Pam had some jam or that Ted had a red bed. I wanted a story, not a bunch of words that had no meaning. I longed for the adventure contained in the books my mother read to me.
By the time I was seven years old, I had given up hope of ever reading anything worth something. The subjects I once loved—history, science, and literature—not longer interested me. The things that once held me captive no longer did. If I couldn’t learn those things on my own, I saw no point in having them taught to me.
One day, I came home from Sunday school with a smile on my face and quite the haughty heart. “They’re doing a contest, Momma, and I’m going to win it.” My mother, who hadn’t heard about the contest, was somewhat concerned as I began to describe to her what the contest entailed. “In the summer, they’re going to see who can read the most books. If you read some, you get a prize. But Momma, if you read fifty books, you get a really cool prize. And I’m going to win it!”
Much later, my mother admitted to being absolutely certain that there was no way I could manage that. But she did her best to help me anyway. That summer, I read through every Watch Out for Joel book, every Cul-de-sac Kids book, and every Magic Tree House book I could get my fingers on. I read daily. Before I knew it, the summer was over, and in those three short months, I had grown to love what I had begun to hate. I had read fifty-four books a single summer. I had done it. I had learned to read.
I finally understood the beauty in words. I knew that people could put letters together to make words and the words made sentences, and if you could string the sentences together just right, you could make stories. It was quite the revelation to me at seven years old. “Literacy is one of the greatest gifts a person could receive.” (Jen Selinsky) This statement means all the more to me because of the struggle I went through to obtain it.  Looking back, I see now that if it had come easily and naturally to me, I wouldn’t see the beauty in it that I am so blessed to see today.

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